50 Shades of Grey is a book about romanticized abuse. It is not a depiction of any healthy relationship, BDSM or otherwise. It glorifies and romanticizes a rich and powerful man sexually assaulting a woman. It is not cute, it is not fun, and it sure as shit is not romantic. Please do not be fooled. This book is not what BDSM is about, and it is not what a romantic relationship should look like.